Saturday, March 28, 2009

When your hair gets caught in the middle

Sometimes the blahs can take over your hair. I went about 2 months not doing a darn thing to my hair. No re twist, nothing.
Whoa Nelly!!!

Well I did style it when I needed to, but I just didn't feel like putting in a whole lot of effort.



Those styles only required I re twist about three locs in the front at the most and the rest of them was like the first picture. The styles do require bobbie pins but it's really simple to do. Just twist the hair around itself and pin. You can pin as you go along in places that look right until you have put up all of your hair. I've done it with just the top half or all of the locs. The back of my head takes a minute to really become poofy in the roots but in the front my hair is very straight so that hair wiggles out of the loc as soon as it can. For that reason I usually re twist my hair every two weeks so for me to go from that to nada was a trip. It actually made me question if our journey was coming to an end. Was I experiencing the seven year itch? Most of the locers I know cut them off within the 7-10 year time line. I had always said that I wasn't going to do that but there I was feeling very apathetic about my hair.
I considered:
Cutting them
Picking them out
Dying them black
Cutting a.bout 12" off
I would feel really gung ho about all of these options, but a couple hours later I was back to the blahs. I talked to a good friend of mine and they said don't cut your hair out of frustration because you are sure to regret it. Cut it when its time to cut it. You will know....not interpreting your actions to see if it's time to cut. With those words of wisdom I decided not to cut it, but I still wasn't feeling like doing my hair, so I went and got someone to do it for me!


So she re twisted them without pins and braided them as she went along. I sat under the dryer for 30 minutes max and she cris crossed the plaits in a style for me. I kept the plaits in for 3 days and viola!
Pretty crinkles!

Now I love my hair again! LOL I use to do this style a lot probably 3 years ago but just stopped for some reason. It's a very simple way to wash re twist and keep it moving! I think crinkles will be around for a minute now with variations of my up dos for spice. Sometimes you need some good words and lil push to appreciate what you have. I share these lil random things cause I know some of the newbie locers go through times of wandering if they are doing the right thing or if they should even be locing at all, it's a natural part of the process even for a ole head like me!

Peace, Love, & Namaste,
Shawnta

9 comments:

Kiana Embee said...

I totally understand what you're going through. I am going into my 2nd year of locing (yes, it's still premature) but I am also debating on whether I want to cut them, leave them alone or pick them out. My is all locked except my ends never sealed because my hair is sooo wavy. So I am at the point where I am blah about my hair too. So I wish you luck but you will be beautiful no matter how you style your hair. Peace.

Cosmo said...

I love your crinkles. I had the same issue with my hair last summer. I was in the 6th year and was just feeling blah about it. I didn't want to re twist or anything. I ended up deciding not to retwist at all. I have pouffy roots and I love them. I'll still retwist a few here or there if I am styling it. I think every now and then you just need to do something different to bring back the spark.

hotredsly said...

Wow girl great blog! I am happy you had someone with some positive words! I guess we all go through that at times and you been at it 7 years so you been through it even more them the average person.
I love your locs and I think when you dicide to cut it you should because you want to not because you're not in the mood to do it.

Amina said...

I can understand the blah and commend you for the commitment.
As much as I loove locks, I underestimated the patience and commitment it required.
The crinkles are goooorgeous!!
I'll stay tuned :)

CarlaDoll said...

Through it all, your hair looks great!

Loren said...

Your locs look great!! My locs were your length, when I had to cut a few inches because they had thinned because of an illness and were too heavy. Well, my hair has thickened up over the last 6 months and I am on the road to recovery. I visit my loctician on a monthly basis for pampering. Hang in there, I saw a woman in Whole Foods one day with beautiful locs that hit her butt. She had them in braid and it looked great.

GemisMyName said...

Thanks for the encouragement. Newbie locker here (almost 1 year). I find myself going back and forth but my curiosity if nothing else keeps me motivated. Yours are gorgeous!!

Phyllis T. said...

Thanks so much for sharing that Diva's to get into the Blahs. I've there right now do I add more color, I want more style choices but have now true inspiration. Until now. I've been loc'd for 5 yrs. now and have locs pass my shoulders. Will have to try those styles.

Queeny20 said...

Hi, I know you aren't loced anymore. Congrats on your successful journey. I am researching them for my daughter's hair. I love the way yours looked and was wondering what technique you used. TIA Q